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James (“Jim”) D. Wallace was born to James and Adele Wallace in Lawton, Oklahoma on January 14, 1947. Jim’s dad was stationed in nearby Fort Sill during WWII, and the family – including Jim’s older sister, Barbara – remained in Lawton after the war ended. Jim recalled his time there fondly and dreamed of growing up to become a weatherman. Barbara, however, was diagnosed with leukemia and the family moved to Phoenix, Arizona for her medical treatment. Barbara passed away at 15 years old, when Jim was 8, and this experience cemented Jim’s determination to become a doctor.
During Jim’s senior year at Phoenix’s Central High School, he sent off two college applications – one to Arizona State University and, at the encouragement of his family’s church’s pastor, one to Amherst College in Massachusetts. Months later he embarked on a cross country train to spend 4 years at Amherst, where he was a bit overwhelmed at first as many of his classmates hailed from prestigious New England prep schools. But with the help and encouragement of classmates who would become lifelong friends - - Paul Daw, Dave Weaver, Mike Godfrey, Jack Widness, and John Mirick among others - - Jim thrived in the pre-med program, even enjoying his summer research on drosophila fruit flies. Medical school decision time arrived in the spring of his senior year along with a late snow storm, and Jim found himself dreaming of sunny southern California. This weather-related decision led him to USC medical school and the love of his life, Alana McGuire – a fellow medical school student with a stunning smile.
Jim finished his medical degree and started his residency, while Alana finished her PhD and began a post-doc at CalTech. They married at the La Venta Inn in Palos Verdes in 1973 – a location they returned to every year of their 51-year marriage on their anniversary to share a kiss. Several years later, while juggling Jim’s residency schedule and Alana’s lab work, they had their first child - Shana. Jim would often accompany Alana to her lab at night and sleep there with Shana while Alana worked. When their daughter Kelly was born, Jim and Alana moved to the Palos Verdes Peninsula and Jim joined a medical practice in Long Beach with a group of physicians that were his colleagues and close friends for the following decades – including Glen Libby, Mark Asbill, Jeff Riker, Rubina Husain, Bryna Kane, and Nancy Schuttenhelm to name a few. Jim and Alana added sons Brandon and Patrick to the crew and moved into their home of 40 years on Strawberry Lane. Alana taught math and science at Chadwick School, while Jim continued with his internal medicine and rheumatology practice, caring greatly about his patients – who had great affection for him in return. Patients would retire and move to places like Las Vegas, but still commute back to Long Beach to keep Jim as their doctor.
As Jim and Alana’s kids started families of their own, Grandpa Jim/Pops was just as towering, warm, and caring a figure in his grandkids’ lives as he has always been in his kids’ lives. And upon retirement, Jim and Alana were also finally able to travel; once they got their first passports, they took trips to Italy, Ireland, Scotland, France, Belgium, the Netherlands, and Germany. They always brought two suitcases: one for their clothes and one for Jim’s travel guides, which helped him plan their adventures in meticulous detail. Jim and Alana also loved to travel with their kids and grandkids – whether to Maine or Hawaii or DC or Bloomington, Indiana. Always the avid sports fan, Jim followed all of his LA teams and all of the college teams associated with his kids, but he was particularly devoted to USC. Jim, Alana, Brandon & Patrick had the same season seats at USC football games for decades, even as the team’s fortunes (and the surrounding crowds) waxed or waned. Jim also loved attending concerts at the Hollywood Bowl, enrolling in continuing education college courses, going to his favorite restaurants (like Philippe’s), shopping at Costco and trying all the samples, visiting the local farmer’s market before getting breakfast with Alana and their dear friend Yasuko Morihara, cooking, and spending as much time with family as possible.
Jim was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer (glioblastoma) in January 2023. Just like the previous 50 years of their marriage, Alana was by Jim’s side every day and night, through every appointment, test, and treatment, until he passed on October 16, 2024. A lifelong USC fan, Jim was amused to find himself being cared for by a UCLA medical team. But what a team it was: Dr. Bobby Chong and Dr. Richard Everson were the outstanding doctors to Jim that Jim had been to his patients, and Jim was impressed by and grateful to all the doctors, surgeons, and medical staff who participated in his care. In his last days, Jim was surrounded by his grandkids (James Wallace (18 months); Alexis Wallace (9); Maddie Gorman (11); and James (15), Lael (12), and Josie (9) Wallace Bosco), his kids’ spouses (Samantha Wallace, Sean Gorman, and David Bosco), as well as Alana, Shana, Kelly, Brandon, and Patrick. True to form, in 20 months of fighting his brain tumor, Jim virtually never complained or expressed anger at such a cruel disease. Instead, Jim’s most common phrases in his final months were the ones that were at the core of his being, and the last words he shared with his family: “Are you okay? Thank you. I love you.” In lieu of flowers, please donate to the UCLA Jonsson Cancer Center Foundation at either this link or by phone: (310) 206-0675, while cheering on USC’s football team.
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